Dirt Roads

The Front Porch

The Front Porch       

By Nikki Pelezo / Dirt Roads

Photo By Nikki Pelezo

We probably had fresh greens, pintos and cornbread and onions just dug from the garden.  We came out onto the front porch to catch the breeze and cool off from a day of work and the heat of the kitchen.     

The front porch is where I learned that Aunt Rade’s youngest son died at Iwo Jima never to return to that old red clay farm in Oklahoma.  It’s where I learned my far off relative Orcemus built the town of Emporia, Kansas, brick by brick.  The front porch is where I learned who and what made me who I am in the world.  All those people had stories and all those people needed to be heard.  The grown-ups took turns weaving these ancestors into my world.  Stories made them come alive with memories handed down through generations.     

Isaac was wounded in the Civil War not once but twice.  Later losing his sight from one of his wounds that never healed.  He carried a musket ball in his right cheek all the rest of his days, making war a constant and painful reminder.  His wife Annie took over the farm work when Isaac went blind.  She worked long mean hours trying to keep her family together.     

Nancy, who in 1835 died giving birth on her 44th birthday.  She delivered her 12th child and made the older children promise to stay in school and to make sure the young ones did the same.  All 12 of her children could read and write, something she and her husband, David, could never do.      

The three brothers and their families leaving their homes in Virginia in the late 1700s to take land grants in Kentucky for fighting in the Revolutionary war.  They made their way through the Cumberland Gap.  From Kentucky, they and their progeny made their way to farms in Ohio, Indiana, Missouri, Kansas, Oklahoma and into Texas.  That was just one parent’s side.  Both my parents represented hundreds of hard working people, people who wanted better for their children.    

With the loss of the front porch, children cannot know of the rich life they come from nor the circumstances.  How will they learn when the voices have stopped?  Where will the children gather and who will pass on the lore of a family?  There are no evenings where lightening bugs gather or children to sit on daddy’s lap to hear of the old families and their struggles.  The front porches are gone, all is quiet.

2 Replies to “The Front Porch

  1. Wonderful story. I guess I missed out sitting on the front porch listening to all my family’s history. I must have been off playing or getting into trouble somewhere. I missed out on a lot of good stories being told by the old folks. Keep writing your stories because I love to read them

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